How to set clear rules for Tatie without stressing the children

Short rules that are known before the childcare session reduce misunderstandings. The parent sets the framework; the babysitter applies it and asks for clarification when a situation has not been anticipated.

Choose the essential rules

Focus on safety, screens, meals, bedtime, outings, visitors, and the people authorized to pick up the child. A list that is too long makes priorities difficult to identify.

Explain them to the child

Use phrases suited to their age and specify what does not change during the parent’s absence. Encourage the child to ask questions, without making them responsible for passing the rules on to the babysitter.

Communicate them directly to the babysitter

Give the instructions before leaving and check that the important points are understood. Also indicate what can be decided on the spot and what requires the parent’s agreement.

Plan for exceptions

A delay, a refusal to eat, or an unusual waking can happen. Define in advance when to send a message, when to call, and which contacts to use if the parent does not answer.

Follow up after the childcare session

Ask what happened and adjust only the instructions needed for next time. Describe the facts, listen to both versions, and avoid changing the rules in the middle of a childcare session unless safety requires it.